Adventures as Miss Saigon

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I’m completely overwhelmed…wow…just wow

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I met up with Will yesterday after getting into Sydney. We grabbed a coffee and caught up on what’s been going on for the last few months since we’d seen each other in Vietnam. Will then took me for a drive, a walk through the bush and for my first glimpse of the Blue Mountains, before heading back to his for a shower and change of clothes…I did not pack the appropriate clothing for autumn in Australia! This was mostly due to not having warm clothes in Vietnam, but also because I am in denial about the chilly temperature!

Later on last night, we met up with Will’s girlfriend, Katie, who I’d also met in Cambodia. We headed out for dinner with two of Will’s sisters and for drinks and Wii bowling afterwards. I love hanging out with Aussies…it’s great to be around people who share my sense of humour!

I started to nod off I’m the car on the way back to Will’s, and was luckily encouraged to sleep in this morning. I fell asleep in the most comfortable, cushy beds I’ve slept in since I left Canada and woke up to a dark, damp rainy day. After a late start, Katie and Will took me on a more in depth tour of the Blue Mountains…the area was stunning and I can’t wait to upload my pictures! It was so quiet and peaceful, and I loved being able to breathe in all the fresh air…such a change from HCMC!

Katie, who’s a vegetarian, strongly encouraged me to try kangaroo when we stopped for a bite to eat…so I did! I guess there’s not much that I won’t try now. And it was actually really good!

Tonight, I’ve met up with my second cousin, Aisling and her boyfriend, Alfred, who I’m staying with for the rest of my time in Sydney. I don’t think I’ve fully realized where in the world I am…and I don’t think that will hit me until I’m face to face with the iconic Sydney Opera House tomorrow…can’t wait!

After a broken nose (medically unconfirmed, but I’m 99% positive it is), an 8 hour flight, with a 3 hour time difference from Vietnam, and a very inquisitive customs official…I’m in Sydney! I bought a sim and have data on my phone…I forgot how much I love being connected to the world! I’m currently on the train, heading to (hopefully) meet Will, one of the Aussies we met in Cambodia and who stayed with me when he came to Vietnam.

I can’t believe I’m finally here!!

This is a time of serious reminiscing and reflection for me…I can’t believe how much has changed in the past 7.5 months (8 by the time I step foot in Canada again).

Back in September, the night before my early morning flight out of Toronto, I was an emotional mess. I stood in the shower at my mom’s house (where I had been staying for the 2 weeks prior to leaving) crying and crying and crying…for the first time, unable to cry this much in front of my mom. I didn’t want to upset her any more than she already was, and I didn’t want to show her or the rest of my family how scared I was.

Now, the next 2 weeks of my life will be a blur…I’ve had the start of some very difficult goodbyes to say today. Tomorrow evening I fly to Australia and return back to Vietnam on May 8th for 36 hours before beginning my journey home to Canada the morning of May 10th. One minute, I’m so excited to be coming home, the next minute, I’m so sad to be leaving Vietnam. I can’t wait to see my family, friends and puppy…I’m devastated to be leaving J and my wonderful girlfriends here.

I’m struggling. I don’t want this to end. But I want to go home. I’m scared. I’m excited. I’m sad. I’m happy. I’m confused. I’m confident. I’m smiling. I’m crying. I’m up. I’m down. I’m anxious. I’m calm. I’m filled with so many conflicting emotions, all at the exact same time.

I’m a mess. An emotional mess.

Testing the WordPress app on my iPhone in preparation of blogging on the road in Australia! Leaving HCMC in 28 hours! 🙂

My time in Vietnam and South East Asia is quickly coming to an end. The last week has been busy trying to get the things on my to do list done and enjoy my last days in this amazing country. Getting through the days have been a struggle at times, I think mostly due to the weather in HCMC. It’s getting hot hot hot here again, and humid! Humid Canadian summers will now seem like a breeze after living in this climate! The rain has started up again, and we’ve had a couple of crazy storms already. It rains so intensely here that the streets often flood…and although wearing a poncho in the rain while riding on a motorbike helps keep your upper body dry, your feet and legs are soaking wet when riding through these flooded areas. Gross.

On Tuesday, the therapist who is replacing me to work with J was due to arrive. Some unforeseen complications have delayed his arrival by approximately 2 weeks, so we won’t have any crossover time with J. But that also means I get J to myself for a few extra days. 🙂

On Wednesday night, I picked up my new clothes from the wonderful tailor that came recommended to me by a contact on Twitter. Less than two weeks prior, I went to see Lan in D3 with the material that Laura and Wendy had given me for Christmas and a picture of the dress I wanted created. One fitting and minor adjustments later and I have the most beautiful Asian inspired dress. Lan also made me another black dress and a pair of black dress pants duplicated from items that I took to her. So two amazing dresses and dress pants tailor made, plus the material for one of the dresses and the pants totaled less than $55usd. Incredible!

On Thursday I finished with my evening client, and Friday night found Laura, Wendy and I out for sushi dinner and a few drinks at Banana Bar. In seven months, the three of us have been through so much together…I easily consider them two of my dearest and closest girlfriends. I’m going to miss my girls so much, and am only comforted by the fact that I know our paths will cross again in the near future. We’ve talked about traveling together every five years, and I really hope that happens.

On Saturday, Wendy and I spent the entire day in D1, running errands, shopping and indulging in food and delicious drinks. I finished up my shopping list and got to suck in as much of the city as I could. It’s very surreal that this is not my reality any more. I spent some time reflecting with Wendy on my wide eyed reactions the first time she brought Zuzana and I into D1. The traffic, the chaos, the sights and the smells were all completely overwhelming. Seven months later, I’m not fazed by these “normal everyday facts of life” here in Vietnam.

So here I am, Sunday night in Saigon…I’ve spent the day knocking some more things off of my to do lists, hanging out with Laura at home, and continuing to indulge in the delicious foods that Vietnam has to offer. One more day of work with J tomorrow before I fly to Australia on Tuesday night.

My heart breaks a little with every goodbye that I say…

Trying to make the most of my remaining days in Vietnam, I managed to pack a lot into my second last weekend here.

On Friday night right after work, I met up with Wendy and we headed into D1. I needed to stop at the post office and do a bit of shopping in preparation for my return home. Thankfully, my ridiculous level of organization paid off and I was able to get my list checked off pretty quickly. There’s still a few things left to shop for, but I got everything that I was looking for on Friday night! We were then on a mission to find a cute little cafe that Wendy had heard about. Down a side alley and up a flight of stairs, and we found ourselves in a great spot with fancy, funky shopping, a cozy corner and delicious desserts! Wendy and I lost ourselves in coffee shop chat for a few hours before heading back to our neighbourhood for Indian food and a decently early night. I’m definitely going to miss our regular coffee dates!

coffee shop sweets...photo cred Wendy

After a sleep in on Saturday morning, I had the fun task of moving my stuff over to Laura’s house. She’s been wonderful enough to offer me her spare bedroom for my remaining time in Vietnam so that the therapist who is coming to replace me can move into my apartment. Several trips in the blazing sun, from my apartment to Laura’s (a few blocks away), lugging all of my stuff…I hate moving and am so glad it’s pretty much done now! Laura and I then went to get facials, and our hair shampooed and blow dried at a nearby salon (for a total of $10usd) before heading back to hers to get ready for a night on the town. It’s going to be a fun week spending so much time with Laura!

Laura, Wendy and I headed down to Boomerang, a great restaurant with a waterfront view in our neighbourhood. We met up with Tony and his wife, Trang, and the newest therapist to arrive to Vietnam, Nic. Nic arrived late on Friday night, and I’m amazed that she was able to function despite the long airplane ride from the USA and lack of sleep! After a few beers in the hot Vietnam sun, we headed down to D1 to meet up with our other coworker, Kathryn for dinner at a wonderfully Vietnamese restaurant. Delicious food and more drinks there before saying goodnight to Trang and Kathryn. The rest of us walked to Go2 in the nearby backpacker’s area for more drinks and good laughs. I’m so sad to be leaving this amazing group of people, but I’m so lucky to be able to call them friends.

Nic, Laura and Wendy at dinner

Kathryn and I eating duck tongue!

Tony at Go2

Today has been a productive one…another sleep in (after Laura and I were up late last night having some girl talk), a bit of unpacking and organizing at Laura’s, cleaning up my old apartment and getting a few more things checked off my “to do” list.

This week is going to fly by. I’m working my regular hours with J and my extra hours with my evening client. I have to meet with my tailor to pick up the clothing that I’ve had made (there will be a blog post about the trip to the tailor’s soon!) and try to spend as much time with my friends here as possible. Only 9 days until I’m off to Australia, and 22 days until I’m headed home! Very exciting times!!!